What is an Abrosexual? Understanding Sexual Fluidity Through a Queer-Affirming Lens

For many people, sexuality and sexual attraction do not feel fixed or constant, but rather are dynamic and ever-changing. Abrosexuality is a sexual identity that reflects this fluidity. At our queer-affirming therapy practice, we support clients in exploring and embracing labels that resonate with their lived experiences, including abrosexuality.

Defining Abrosexuality

An abrosexual person experiences shifts in their sexual orientation over time. These changes can occur over days, weeks, months, or years, and may include attractions to different genders or fluctuating levels of sexual interest. Abrosexuality is a valid and real identity by itself, not confusion or indecisiveness.

Abrosexual people might feel:

• Attracted to different genders at different times

• A lack of consistent sexual attraction

• A fluid or undefined relationship to labels

  
  

How Queer-Affirming Therapy Supports Abrosexual Clients

Identity exploration is a deeply personal journey. For abrosexual individuals, especially those new to the term or unsure how to describe their experience, therapy can be a grounding and affirming space. Here’s how our practice helps:

1. Normalizing Fluidity

Mainstream narratives often prioritize fixed identities, which can lead to shame or invalidation. We work to normalize fluidity and validate your experience as authentic.

2. Reducing Internalized Stigma

Many abrosexual clients worry they are "just confused" or fear judgment from within or outside the LGBTQIA+ community. Therapy can help challenge these internalized beliefs.

3. Exploring Labels Without Pressure

You don’t have to have all the answers. Therapy provides a safe place to explore identities and try on labels without fear or commitment.

4. Navigating Relationships and Communication

Changing attraction can impact relationships. We help clients build skills to communicate their needs with partners and understand boundaries within evolving identities.

Affirming Your Unique Path

Abrosexuality is one of many ways to experience and express sexuality. Whether you use the label regularly or are just beginning to explore it, your identity matters. In queer-affirming therapy, we honor your journey with compassion, curiosity, and care.

If you're interested in starting queer affirming therapy, contact us here.