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Relationship Counseling for LGBTQIA+ Couples
Expansive Therapy
Being in an LGBTQIA+ relationship comes with unique joys, possibilities, and also pressures and difficulties. At Expansive Therapy, we offer affirming relationship counseling tailored specifically to the needs and experiences of queer couples.
Why LGBTQIA+ Couples Seek Relationship Counseling
Along with all the usual issues that couples face, LGBTQIA+ partners often encounter unique stressors, including:
Evolving identities of one or both partners around sexuality and/or gender.
Internalized homophobia, transphobia, or shame
Legal or societal barriers to recognition and safety
Pressure to fit into heteronormative relational narratives
Healing unresolved wounds from discriminatory experiences
Navigating open or non-monogamous relationships
Coming out and identity negotiation within the relationship
Discrimination or lack of support from family or community
Our queer-affirming therapists understand these nuances and open up a container where couples can explore without pressure.
What to Expect in LGBTQIA+ Relationship Counseling
At Expansive Therapy, we create a safe, empowering, expansive, and judgment-free space where you and your partner(s) can:
Improve communication and active listening
Address conflict with compassion and skill
Explore relationship structures like polyamory or chosen family
Build emotional intimacy and mutual support
Heal from past trauma or betrayal
Navigate gender identity and transition as a couple
At Expansive, our therapists take a relational and emotion-focused approach to healing, teaching queer couples to navigate difficulties with love and understanding.
The Importance of Queer-Affirming Therapists
Not all therapists are trained to understand the dynamics of queer relationships. Working with an LGBTQIA+-affirming therapist means you’re not starting from scratch. You won’t have to educate your counselor about your identity, explain your pronouns, or justify your life. Instead, your therapist can focus on helping you grow, connect, and heal.
Virtual and In-Person Options Available
Whether you’re based in New York City or Los Angeles, or looking for online relationship counseling, our therapists are here to support you. We offer flexible scheduling, insurance support, and a deeply affirming environment.
Ready to Strengthen Your Relationship?
If you and your partner(s) are seeking deeper connection, healthier communication, or support through life’s transitions, queer-affirming relationship counseling can make a meaningful difference. Text us at 917-426-1521 or email us at info@expansivetherapy.com to get started.
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