At Expansive Therapy, we believe that mental health care should be as diverse and expansive as the individuals it serves. For neuroqueer individuals—those who are both neurodivergent (e.g., autistic, ADHD, dyslexic) and part of the LGBTQIA+ community—finding truly affirming support can be a challenge. Neuroqueer individuals often navigate a world built for neurotypical and cisheteronormative experiences. This can lead to a complex interplay of challenges, from sensory overwhelm and executive dysfunction to minority stress, imposter syndrome, and the profound exhaustion of masking one's true self. Traditional therapeutic approaches, unfortunately, can sometimes fall short, inadvertently pathologizing differences rather than recognizing them as natural variations of human experience.

Our approach centers on understanding and honoring the intricate connections between your neurotype and your queer identity. We recognize that your experiences are shaped by both, and that true healing and growth stem from a place of radical acceptance and self-discovery.

What Does Neuroqueer Affirming Therapy Look Like?

1. Identity-Affirming Lens: We acknowledge and celebrate the intersection of your neurodivergence and your queer identity. We understand that these aren't separate issues to be "fixed" but integral parts of who you are.

2. De-pathologizing Differences: We shift away from models that view neurodivergent traits or queer identities as deficits. Instead, we work with you to identify your unique strengths, processing styles, and communication needs.

3. Trauma-Informed Care: Many neuroqueer individuals have experienced various forms of trauma, whether from discrimination, gaslighting, or the pervasive pressure to conform. Our therapists are trained in trauma-informed modalities to create a safe and healing environment.

4. Flexible and Collaborative Approach: We adapt our therapeutic techniques to suit your neurotype. This might involve:

   • Sensory-Friendly Spaces: For those with sensory sensitivities, we prioritize creating a comfortable and calming environment, whether in-person or virtually.

   • Direct and Clear Communication: We value clear, unambiguous communication, respecting diverse communication styles.

   • Focus on Strengths: Rather than solely addressing challenges, we help you lean into your unique neurodivergent and queer strengths, such as intense focus, creative thinking, or a strong sense of justice.

   • Exploration of Masking: We provide a safe space to explore the impact of masking and empower you to unmask in ways that feel authentic and liberating.

5. Community and Connection: While individual therapy is crucial, we also recognize the importance of community and chosen family. We aim to foster a sense of belonging and connection, acknowledging that shared experiences can be hugely validating and healing.

Ready to embrace your unique self?

At Expansive Therapy, we are proud to be one of the leading providers of neurodivergent affirming therapy for the queer community in New York and California. Our team of compassionate and knowledgeable therapists (some of which are neurodivergent themselves) is dedicated to creating a space where your unique identity is understood, respected, and celebrated.

Contact us today for a free consultation and discover how Expansive Therapy can support your journey.