Turn Yourself On

Table of Contents

•  Breaking Free from External Validation

• Finding Power and Peace Within

• 8 Steps for Turning Yourself On

Turn Yourself On

We are all hooked on validation from the outside world.  We want to be approved of, loved, turned on by someone.  We are like children with endless appetites for sweets.  

But here is what happens.  We get the love, and then we are basically strung out until we get it again.  My God, when will it come?  

The problem with this is that it leaves our good feelings in the hands of others, which leaves us feeling powerless.  We are farming out our happiness to others. Do we really want to give others this kind of power?  Or for that matter, pressure others to make us feel good?  Is it their job?

Sitting with someone who has done a lot of this psychological and self worth work, you can feel the calmness emanating from them.  They are not needy.  And it lets you off the hook.  They don’t need approval (or as much of it) and are ok just as they are.  Refreshing.  

What if the basis of your contentment came from within?  And the validation that comes from the outside was just icing on the cake?

How do we learn to turn ourselves on? 

Turning yourself on means that you are the one in charge of your own good feelings.  You are also in charge of your bad feelings! 

How much time do you spend creating inner joy?  Make this your mantra, I am here with myself through this entire life and every day I create a more beautiful experience!