What AI Therapy Can't Replace: Real Human Relationships
Megan Murphy, Expansive Cofounder
Table of Contents
AI Therapy: Helpful or Harmful
The Role of Real Human Connection
Friction, Growth, and Healing
Isolation vs. Thriving in Relationships
We don’t really know what life will look like as AI continues its massive transformational growth. Already, there are apps that will text you and act as your therapist. Maybe you’ve tried this already.
If you are someone who gains a lot from studying alone, taking advice, and challenging yourself to make changes on your own, these tools might be very helpful. And let’s face it — they are also cheap.
My experience in therapy—both as a client and as a therapist—is that the key ingredient for healing is the relationship itself. Now, my ChatGPT friend can feel very relational! In fact, it’s probably much better at giving me exactly what I want in a frictionless environment than any human relationship could. But isn’t it the friction that we need to work through?
We are humans who come from human parents, and most of us have issues related to other people and relationships in our lives that we are working with and through.
In-person therapy is more challenging because we are real, and we often don’t give each other exactly what we want. We project onto each other, and we push each other’s buttons. But nothing compares to someone witnessing and sharing your pain. This won't feel the same with a chatbot.
In my lifetime, I won't be isolated with a chatbot. I’ll be with people I love, people who challenge me, and people I don’t know at all. I want to be okay, I want to thrive! in all of these scenarios.
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Fighting Isolation
Do you remember the deep pandemic days when people started to feel rusty at relationships? We were all spending so much time at home—many of us alone and isolated. While this can feel safe sometimes, ultimately, it isn’t what we need, at least not all the time.
Babies who aren’t given the physical and emotional attention they need fail to thrive.
Fail to thrive. Think about that.
Human Connections and the Necessity of Real Relationships
So, thriving is exactly what I’m talking about. In this incredible journey of life on Earth, don’t we want to flourish? For most of us, this doesn’t include being alone in the woods. It’s about being with other people. Therefore, learning to sharpen your skills in navigating relationships is worth every bit of the time you invest.
Interested in starting human therapy?
If you're ready to experience the kind of support that only human connection can offer, Expansive Therapy is here for you.
We have immediate openings in New York and California. Feel free to explore our services below:
Reach out today for a free consult, our human admin team is standing by ready to help.
Fighting Isolation
Do you remember the deep pandemic days when people started to feel rusty at relationships? We were all spending so much time at home—many of us alone and isolated. While this can feel safe sometimes, ultimately, it isn’t what we need, at least not all the time.
Babies who aren’t given the physical and emotional attention they need fail to thrive.
Fail to thrive. Think about that.
Human Connections and the Necessity of Real Relationships
So, thriving is exactly what I’m talking about. In this incredible journey of life on Earth, don’t we want to flourish? For most of us, this doesn’t include being alone in the woods. It’s about being with other people. Therefore, learning to sharpen your skills in navigating relationships is worth every bit of the time you invest.
Interested in starting human therapy?
If you're ready to experience the kind of support that only human connection can offer, Expansive Therapy is here for you.
We have immediate openings in New York and California. Feel free to explore our services below:
