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Gender Exploration Therapy in NYC That Honors Who You Are

Gender Exploration Therapy in NYC That Honors Who You Are

Gender Exploration Therapy in NYC That Honors Who You Are

Your gender journey is valid, nuanced, and entirely your own. Our NYC-based therapists offer affirming space to explore identity, expression, and transition, without pressure or assumptions.

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Hand touching a rainbow light, symbolizing self-discovery and affirmation through gender exploration therapy and support for gender identity in NYC.
Hand touching a rainbow light, symbolizing self-discovery and affirmation through gender exploration therapy and support for gender identity in NYC.

What is Gender Exploration Therapy?

What is Gender Exploration Therapy?

Gender exploration therapy is a supportive space for anyone questioning, evolving, or deepening their understanding of gender identity. In gender exploration therapy, we make room for your truth, in your time.

Therapists trained in gender-affirming care can help you process internal questions, societal pressure, family dynamics, dysphoria, euphoria, or transition-related decisions. Whether you’re FTM, nonbinary, transfeminine, gender expansive, or not sure how to describe yourself yet, therapy can help you feel more grounded in your own experience.

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Red neon sign with male and female symbols, representing identity, reflection, and support in gender exploration therapy NYC
Red neon sign with male and female symbols, representing identity, reflection, and support in gender exploration therapy NYC
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Close-up of dictionary page highlighting the word gender, symbolizing identity, self-discovery, and gender exploration therapy
Close-up of dictionary page highlighting the word gender, symbolizing identity, self-discovery, and gender exploration therapy

Gender Exploration Therapy at Expansive Therapy NYC

Gender Exploration Therapy at Expansive Therapy NYC

Gender Exploration Therapy at Expansive Therapy NYC

Our therapists don’t assume, rush, or pathologize your process. We listen. Many of our clinicians identify as LGBTQIA+ themselves, and all are trained in gender-affirming, trauma-informed care.

Clients often come to us after being misgendered or misunderstood in medical or mental health settings. Here, your identity is never up for debate. You’ll be supported through everything from early questioning to social or medical transition, voice and body image work, and navigating cisnormative environments.

Our NYC office is located at 352 7th Ave, Suite 1201—easily accessible from Kips Bay, West Harlem, Roosevelt Island, and across the city.

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What Do You Get Out of Gender Exploration Therapy?

What Do You Get Out of Gender Exploration Therapy?

Therapy can offer structure, reflection, and emotional grounding during a deeply personal process. Some sessions focus on identity development, others on navigating dysphoria, grief, or trauma. There’s also space for joy, gender euphoria, and community connection.

Clients often:

  • Clarify gender identity or expression

  • Explore name/pronoun use, presentation, or transition goals

  • Process dysphoria or euphoria

  • Build confidence and self-compassion

  • Receive letters of support for gender-affirming care, if needed

This is your process. We’re just here to hold space for it.

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Rainbow pride flag glowing in sunlight through trees, symbolizing affirmation, identity, and support in gender exploration therapy
Rainbow pride flag glowing in sunlight through trees, symbolizing affirmation, identity, and support in gender exploration therapy

Finding the Right Support for Your Journey

Exploring your gender identity is a deeply personal process, and having a therapist who truly understands queer experiences can make all the difference. In this video, Expansive Therapy co-founders Nick Fager and Megan Murphy share five signs that it might be time to switch to a queer-affirming therapist, and why finding the right fit matters.

If you’re navigating questions about your gender or seeking a space where your identity is fully seen and affirmed, this conversation is a reminder that you deserve support that feels safe, informed, and genuinely aligned with your journey.

Exploring your gender identity is a deeply personal process, and having a therapist who truly understands queer experiences can make all the difference. In this video, Expansive Therapy co-founders Nick Fager and Megan Murphy share five signs that it might be time to switch to a queer-affirming therapist, and why finding the right fit matters.

If you’re navigating questions about your gender or seeking a space where your identity is fully seen and affirmed, this conversation is a reminder that you deserve support that feels safe, informed, and genuinely aligned with your journey.

Meet Our NYC Therapists Specializing in Gender Exploration

Our gender-affirming therapists understand how layered and personal the journey can be, from early questioning to transition support and everything in between.

Many are LGBTQIA+ themselves and work with clients across the gender spectrum with warmth and respect. No assumptions, no rushing: just space for you to discover who you are and how you want to move through the world.

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Danny Wang

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Connor McCabe

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Mikie White

He/They

Resident Therapist

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Online & In-Person

Mikie White

He/They

Resident Therapist

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View Profile

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Online, In-Person

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Mikie White

He/They

Resident Therapist

Danny Wang

He/Him

LMHC

Connor McCabe

He/Him

LMFT

Meet Our NYC Therapists

Please note: Availability is always shifting, so we recommend visiting our full NYC therapist directory.

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Yellow stars on pastel pink and blue background, symbolizing affirmation, identity, and support in gender exploration therapy

Why Clients Choose Expansive Therapy in NYC for Gender Exploration Therapy

Clients choose Expansive because we center gender-diverse people. Our team includes trans, nonbinary, and queer therapists who bring both clinical training and lived understanding to the work.

We know how exhausting it can be to explain or justify your identity in healthcare settings. Here, you don’t have to. Instead, you’ll find a therapist who holds your identity with curiosity, respect, and warmth, and supports your self-definition at every step.

"Expansive Therapy provided me hope, healing, and understanding. Working with Nick I was able to find my voice. Through just a few short w months I was overcoming obstacles I would never dreamed possible. Services are affordable and straight forward and the practice made me feel welcome and taken care of from the moment I stepped in the door. Thank you!"
Jeff Ackerman ★★★★★

How Insurance Works for Expansive Therapy

How Insurance Works for Expansive Therapy

How Insurance Works for Expansive Therapy

Therapy should feel accessible, financially and emotionally. Expansive Therapy is an out-of-network provider and accepts most PPO and POS insurance plans with out-of-network mental health coverage.

Our admin team verifies your benefits before you begin, sends a personalized breakdown, and even handles claim submissions for you. Rates range from $75 to $250 per session, depending on therapist experience, below the NYC average.

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Two people talking over coffee, symbolizing safe space and support in gender exploration and identity therapy.
Two people talking over coffee, symbolizing safe space and support in gender exploration and identity therapy.

Find Us In Midtown Manhattan

Find Us In Midtown Manhattan

Find Us In Midtown Manhattan

Our Midtown Manhattan office is located at 352 7th Ave, Suite 1201, close to neighborhoods like Flatiron, Turtle Bay, Civic Center, and Morningside Heights. It’s designed to feel safe, affirming, and accessible to anyone navigating gender identity in a city that doesn’t always make that easy.

Virtual sessions are also available across New York State.

Office Hours (Admin Support):

Monday through Friday, 9 am–6 pm

Therapist Availability:

Monday through Sunday, 8 am–10 pm

NYC Office Address:

352 7th Ave, Suite 1201
New York, NY 10001

Phone:
(917) 426-1521
Email: info@expansivetherapy.com

Expansive Therapy Serves Los Angeles

Expansive Therapy Serves Los Angeles

Expansive Therapy Serves Los Angeles

We also offer gender exploration therapy to clients throughout Los Angeles, with LGBTQIA+ affirming therapists based in LA, San Francisco, and beyond. Sessions are offered virtually through secure telehealth.

Exploring Something Else? These Are Other Services We Offer

Exploring Something Else? These Are Other Services We Offer

Exploring Something Else? These Are Other Services We Offer

Exploring gender may be one part of your story, but it’s not the only one. Expansive Therapy supports the full range of queer and trans mental health needs, from anxiety to trauma, relationships, and identity.

Exploring gender may be one part of your story, but it’s not the only one. Expansive Therapy supports the full range of queer and trans mental health needs, from anxiety to trauma, relationships, and identity.

Exploring gender may be one part of your story, but it’s not the only one. Expansive Therapy supports the full range of queer and trans mental health needs, from anxiety to trauma, relationships, and identity.

Frequently Asked Questions About Gender Exploration Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions About Gender Exploration Therapy

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Do I have to be “sure” about my gender to start therapy?

Can I get a letter for hormone therapy or surgery?

Is gender exploration therapy only for trans people?

What’s the difference between gender therapy and regular therapy?

Can I bring up topics like dysphoria, sexuality, or trauma?

Do I have to be “sure” about my gender to start therapy?

Can I get a letter for hormone therapy or surgery?

Is gender exploration therapy only for trans people?

What’s the difference between gender therapy and regular therapy?

Can I bring up topics like dysphoria, sexuality, or trauma?

Do I have to be “sure” about my gender to start therapy?

Can I get a letter for hormone therapy or surgery?

Is gender exploration therapy only for trans people?

What’s the difference between gender therapy and regular therapy?

Can I bring up topics like dysphoria, sexuality, or trauma?

Do I have to be “sure” about my gender to start therapy?

Can I get a letter for hormone therapy or surgery?

Is gender exploration therapy only for trans people?

What’s the difference between gender therapy and regular therapy?

Can I bring up topics like dysphoria, sexuality, or trauma?

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